I don't think I will ever get used to strangers knowing who I am and all about my family. It doesn't happen that often, but when it does it always takes me by surprise. This has happened several times in the past few weeks- I'm making small talk with a stranger (at the pool, a mom's group, etc) and ask about their kids and when I offer up some factoid about one of my kids I get a response like "Oh I know about your family, I follow you on (fill in the blank)/I go to your church/I see you walking all the time" I never really know what to say after that. I think I usually say something super intelligent like "Oh, that's cool".
2. Sensory Bags
Again, I copied my Quad Mama friend and made these neato burrito sensory bags for the kids to play with. I had visions of 15-20 minutes of pure entertainment as they squished and smashed the bags to see the colors/ glitter/ confetti/ soap suds move around before their very eyes. Um, not so much. Maybe 2 minutes? We've tried this several times now and each time has gotten better. At first only Andrew liked the bags, now everyone but Levi likes them (of course, Levi doesn't like new things). Levi and Ben mostly like throwing them off the table. I even switch the bags around every 30 seconds-ish so they don't get bored with one bag.
For those curious readers, I made the bags by filling ziploc gallon size bags with various household items. Hand sanitizer, baby shampoo, baby oil, hair gel, and water were all used as bases. Then I used puffy paint to color the liquid base and added fun materials like glitter, confetti, and beads. Voila! Mediocre sensory bags! Buyer beware- they can leak! Duct tape and double bagging saved me from a huge mess.
Leah's had some pretty cool things happen to her lately. We found a new ophthalmologist who specializes in CVI! She was much more thorough and informative than her last one. The best part was she informed me about weekly national conference calls for parents of kids with CVI (based in NY) where parents call in to ask questions and consult with each other. They even have expert professionals every couple of weeks to speak to us. I've been listening in for a few weeks now and it's truly a great resource. Leah also has received her bath chair and her stander! Haven't needed the bath chair yet, but she's done really well in the stander and her therapist can already see a difference :) Lastly, she is now taking her liquid antibiotics by mouth!! This is a huge deal for her! Her eating still varies a lot, but teeny tiny baby steps are where she's at and as always, I'll take a little progress over none at all.
4. New Skills
With my almost 17 month olds, the new skills are constant! I'll probably miss some on the blog as I don't remember to jot everything down. Andrew is walking!!!!! FINALLY!! He also said his first word- "go". They are all much much more vocal, not many real words, but lots of pretend talking and attempts to let us know what they want, including some head shaking. We've started 'word of the week' flash cards and their little faces light up when we review the word. No one has said the words yet, but they do point some of them out in books. Ben can walk backwards and the girls walk reeeeally fast. They love riding their push cars and after my back was tired of bending over one day, I taught them how to push each other! Success!! Now if only they could steer around obstacles... They are all getting better at getting into things- doors, drawers, and cabinets- any container really- are all fascinating. They're starting to figure out climbing. Imitating has increased dramatically and is so much fun! We love to make faces and sounds and watch them focus on copying us. They do imitate each other as well. Alli has started going over to Leah's pump when she hears it beeping and pointing at it and looking at me- it was so funny to me to realize that she picked that up from watching me. They're starting to dance more on their own too; they LOVE music and seem to enjoy bouncing/shaking to the beat. I've also gotten Caroline and Andrew into helping put toys back in containers :)
Negative new skills- throwing (Ben), hair pulling (Andrew), and biting (Allison). Can't wait to see what the others come up with!
http://youtu.be/y1vjB_i4u4A several minutes of free play time
http://youtu.be/l6rp3SdCHgY Caroline dancing
http://youtu.be/j79n_Zpa3XU Alli pushing Ben
5. Big Events
I got brave and trimmed Alli and Caroline's bangs. They were way too long and had been in their eyes for weeks. Alli would not stop squirming, so hers are a tad shorter than I intended, but Caroline's came out pretty good. I keep forgetting to take a picture though! And, no, I didn't save any hair. It was a mess.
We had our last swim day of the season :( It was extra special though because Daddy, Nona, and Grandpa were there to share it with the kiddos! Also several of our favorite friends! I hope they continue to enjoy the water and I'm looking forward to some splash pad fun next summer.
Ben, Allison, and Levi all tested out of ECI physical therapy and have moved on to communication/developmental skills! This is the typical natural progression for preemies in the program. I'm glad they're having so much success, even if we miss our ECI PT!
We attended a birthday party a few weekends ago for our neighbor friend turning 1. All was well until it started getting really crowded and Dave and I had a hard time keeping track of where everyone was and which adults had which kids- so we trekked home. Andrew did manage to crawl around and steal food off strangers plates! How embarrassing!!
Lastly, my wonderful friend who has been helping 3 days a week for the past year decided to return to work part time and reduce her Pack days to once a week. She has been an enormous help to me through pregnancy and the first year. I could never thank her enough and the kids adore her! I've consulted with her so many times it's been strange to not get her opinion before making a decision. She's always up for one of my crazy ideas/adventures/whatever new thing I'm trying with the kids which I've always appreciated! And as God would have it, a few weeks before she returned to work, a new neighbor moved in who is recently retired, looking for a way to volunteer- preferably with kids, is really bored and doesn't know anyone, and her husband works and her kids are grown. Um, walk across the street and help me please! And she has! And she's wonderful and just the sweetest lady ever. I always tell people that God has blessed my family and truly provides for us, and this is just another example!
|Dave with the Bigs at the party|
|Aunt NeeNee with the kids before she goes back to work|